Getting your teen to read might feel like pulling teeth. With school assignments piling up and so many distractions competing for their attention, reading can fall to the bottom of their priority list.
But what if there were simple, practical reluctant readers strategies to make reading something your teen looks forward to instead of dreads?
If you’ve ever wondered how to help your teen become a stronger reader and actually enjoy it, you’re in the right place.
1. Understand the Challenges Teens Face
Teens often don’t want to read outside of school because they already spend so much time reading for assignments. They might also feel embarrassed if they struggle to comprehend what they’re reading. Some teens haven’t yet found the types of books they enjoy, while others simply prefer spending their free time on activities like gaming or socializing. Understanding these challenges is the first step to helping your teen.
Habits are powerful, and reading is no exception. One effective way to introduce a reading habit is through "habit stacking," a concept popularized by James Clear in Atomic Habits. Link reading to an existing part of your teen’s routine, such as after dinner, after a shower, or following a video game break.
Better yet, join your teen in this habit. Your involvement shows them that reading isn’t work; it’s an opportunity to bond or relax together.
You could also suggest starting a book club with their friends, creating a social and fun incentive to read regularly.
3. Help Them Find the Right Books
Choosing the right book can make all the difference. Reach out to your teen’s English teacher for recommendations tailored to their grade level and interests. You can also visit your local library, where librarians are experts in connecting teens with books they’ll love. For more suggestions, check out a list of recommended reading I created based on books I've personally read with my students here.
4. Discuss Books and Ask Questions
Talking about books can deepen your teen’s understanding and appreciation for what they’re reading. Ask open-ended questions like:
“What do you think about the main character’s decisions?”
“Why do you think the author included that plot twist?”
Encouraging discussion not only improves comprehension but also helps your teen consider multiple perspectives, enriching their overall reading experience.
If your teen struggles with comprehension or vocabulary, begin with books that are slightly below their grade level. A good rule of thumb is to ensure there are no more than five unfamiliar words per page.
Encourage your teen to jot down confusing sections or unknown words as they read. Afterward, look up definitions together and discuss any unclear passages.
Reading the same book as your teen is another great way to check for understanding while making it a shared experience.
If progress stalls, consider enlisting the help of a tutor, like myself, who specializes in reading comprehension.
6. Explore Different Formats
Traditional novels aren’t the only way to build reading skills. Audiobooks are a fantastic option for teens who prefer to stay active while engaging with a story. Graphic novels, magazines, and blog posts can also appeal to reluctant readers and foster a love of reading in unconventional ways.
Let your teen choose the format that feels right for them. The goal is to get them reading daily, no matter the medium.
7. Use Digital Tools to Motivate Reading
Apps like Goodreads can be a game-changer for teens. They can track books they’ve read, discover new ones based on their interests, and read reviews to help them decide on their next pick. Goodreads also offers a yearly reading challenge where teens can decide how many books they’d like to read in a year and track their progress as they complete book after book. This sense of progress and personalization can make reading feel more rewarding.
Final Thoughts
Helping your teen become a stronger reader doesn’t have to be a battle. By understanding their challenges, using effective reluctant readers strategies, and offering support in choosing the right materials, you can make reading a positive and engaging part of their life. Remember, the goal isn't perfection; it’s progress.